But unhappiness doesn’t mean failure. It means your relationship is asking for attention, compassion, and care.

Marriage is often imagined as a fairytale — a place of safety, connection, and unwavering love. Many people grow up believing that finding “the one” will bring lasting happiness and security. But anyone who has lived inside a marriage for more than a few seasons knows: the truth is more complex — and ultimately, more beautiful — than the fantasy.